Quote Originally Posted by Emma Julia View Post
I would like to thank each one of you who responded. The reason why I have gone back to Canada is for my treatment. I am a breast cancer patient and he was helping me to take care of the children as he had taken them as his own. He was a wonderful father and a husbang to me till we came here in the UK. His wife decided not to sign the divorce papers and instead for them to try it again. As soon as she found out that I am here she tried everything that she could in order to bring him back home to them. Their children are now over 20's but she convinced them to go back to school so his financial responsibilities will continue. The church that he goes to with her before talked to him to go back to his wife and he did because it is the right thing to do as a christian. It is really hard for me to comprehend how he could leave us. It is not just a one year relationship but almost 8 years. I wanted to go to court for financial support with the children's biological father but he topped me because he said that from now on the children are his responsibility.
being a christian myself i think with ur situation leaving u just like that is unfair and unjust...God is forgiving and for sure He doesn't want any of us to suffer like that just b'coz of that small paper of marriage...get him to sort out things for u to get back the life u have in canada..het him help u....

my prayers are with u and with ur kids.