Gparry,
I am willing to give way, as a matter of fact I did already. I am just asking if someone could help me that I could stay here.
For my own sanity and for my children, I called the wife and arranged for a meeting to tell her that I am not after her husband but all I wanted is for him to have in contact with my girls. He is the father of our children. He cared for them, he put them to sleep and hugs them and was there, every single Sunday to go to church with them. One of my condition in coming here is for him to raise our children as Christians. I have nothing left financially. My family turned their backs on me. They felt disrespected.