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    Dedworth?

    Why no photos of yourself and family?

    Why no posts relating to them?

    How did you meet for example?

    You post so much here, why such secrecy?


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    Why the interest Apo? We should respect others right to privacy. I have no photo's of myself or family on here either, and no surpises, I wasn't called Englishman2010 by my parents


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    Quote Originally Posted by Englishman2010 View Post
    Why the interest Apo? We should respect others right to privacy. I have no photo's of myself or family on here either, and no surpises, I wasn't called Englishman2010 by my parents
    Hi Englishman2010,

    Thanks for the comment.

    You post on many Fil-Brit issues, as do most people here.
    Dedworth never posts on anything to do with Fil-Brit topics, now maybe I'm wrong here but I did think this was a FilipinoUK forum.

    I asked this question before and some people gave me rep for this, and I thank them for that.
    So others not quite so visible as me are wondering the same thing.

    I think everyone should have the right to post on topics that they are interested in, but surely these posts should at least be accompanied by ones that pertain to the modus operandi of this forum.

    I frankly find it astonishing that someone would spend so much time posting about everything BUT Fil-Brit subjects.
    These continuous threads on politics are very depressing to me and others.

    As someone who sent me a private message said "I've often wondered that myself".

    I think these comments are legitimate.


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    Everybody is entitled to have their privacy..I'm sure not all or most of the people here aren't called with their user names..and there are people here who don't post about Fil-Brit subjects either..being in the forum and in a Fil-Brit relationship doesn't mean we have to talk only about that..that's why there are different sections of the forum where we can post certain subjects we want to discuss or just share to others..
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    well im the same apo.............i dont have any personal details of myself as it is just a forum, however I do think you make a valid point , and i see where you are coming from ............but we dont want another unecessary arguement to develope or misunderstandings to occur....maybe you could discuss it privately with Dedworth....
    all the best


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    Hi Rayna,

    There are many other forums on every interest imaginable on the internet that have main titles such as Religion/Politics for example.
    Then the people that are interested in those threads can delve deeper.

    When I visit Filipino UK I see Dedworth's political posts all the time, I don't want to see any of his posts.
    How can I do this?


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    Quote Originally Posted by aposhark View Post
    ...When I visit Filipino UK I see Dedworth's political posts all the time, I don't want to see any of his posts.
    How can I do this?
    Go to his profile and add him to your ignore list
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    i'll not publish pics on here or any social web site of me or my family for privacy reasons.

    if i google my surname and look at the images, the very first picture is of my wife from her face book account

    i've been a victim of ID theft before

    its dedworths right Aposhark to have his views (and he's not the only one to have similar views), whether you agree with him or not thats freedom of speech, at least we have that here, unlike many countires

    if you dont like what he posts as others have said ignore it and move on, you've got a beautiful wife and daughter to spend time with
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    Quote Originally Posted by Englishman2010 View Post
    Why the interest Apo? We should respect others right to privacy. I have no photo's of myself or family on here either, and no surpises, I wasn't called Englishman2010 by my parents
    I agree with this

    This site is in the public domain and read by others apart from members of this forum. Means individual privacy and security is an important issue that impacts different members in different ways.

    This thread could have worded without mentioning names
    (eg why do people not ...)

    Threads such as this will have the tendancy to bait people

    Personally I believe it's important to choose when to communicate publicly versus privately.
    If the situation is personal (ie you have an issue with someone else), then send an pm explaining your view of the situation, try not to read peoples minds and interpret everything they write

    None of us can become better people when we taunt and bully others in a public setting.

    I earnestly urge members not to continue this thread .


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    Bit of a strange thread to be honest,its Dedworths right to put as little or as much personal detail on here as he feels comfortable with,freedom of speech and all that



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    Quote Originally Posted by aposhark View Post
    Why no photos of yourself and family?

    Why no posts relating to them?

    How did you meet for example?

    You post so much here, why such secrecy?
    I can tell you where he has been today to a remembrance parade in Windsor


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    Quote Originally Posted by lestaxi1 View Post
    I can tell you where he has been today to a remembrance parade in Windsor
    I might not agree with a lot dedworth says but if he has gone to a remembrance parade then hes not forgotten the scarifices many people made and paid with their lives so we can sit here

    dedworth puts me to shame, because i should know better my mother and father lived under the nazi's and russians, my father joined the russian army to fight the nazi's, and they escaped to come to the UK because of the freedoms that they had lost and the murder of 1/3 of citizens of the Baltics

    next year i will go ...
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    Quote Originally Posted by aposhark View Post
    Hi Englishman2010,

    Thanks for the comment.

    You post on many Fil-Brit issues, as do most people here.
    Dedworth never posts on anything to do with Fil-Brit topics, now maybe I'm wrong here but I did think this was a FilipinoUK forum.

    I asked this question before and some people gave me rep for this, and I thank them for that.
    So others not quite so visible as me are wondering the same thing.

    I think everyone should have the right to post on topics that they are interested in, but surely these posts should at least be accompanied by ones that pertain to the modus operandi of this forum.

    I frankly find it astonishing that someone would spend so much time posting about everything BUT Fil-Brit subjects.
    These continuous threads on politics are very depressing to me and others.

    As someone who sent me a private message said "I've often wondered that myself".

    I think these comments are legitimate.
    Hi Aposhark,

    Dedworth does like his Threads on politics but I guess that is his passion, like many I guess he gets annoyed people beat the system when many of us have struggled to comply and jump though hoops. Dedworth does post on Phill matters I can remember posts from him advising people on going to Hounslow barrio etc. Also on various ways to contact phill and sending boxes home. WHich are subjects i can remember him talking about on from the top of my head.

    I guess like Me he refers to keep himself and his family details fairly private As do many others on here while others are happy to show pictures etc..

    To be honest in the Brit Phill community I think for some its better to keep a low profile on here for the Wifes benefit in case it causes gossip somehow.
    Oh lord why did you make so many clothes and shoe shops


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    Quote Originally Posted by joebloggs View Post
    i'll not publish pics on here or any social web site of me or my family for privacy reasons.

    if i google my surname and look at the images, the very first picture is of my wife from her face book account

    i've been a victim of ID theft before

    its dedworths right Aposhark to have his views (and he's not the only one to have similar views), whether you agree with him or not thats freedom of speech, at least we have that here, unlike many countires

    if you dont like what he posts as others have said ignore it and move on, you've got a beautiful wife and daughter to spend time with
    Word you will not find a thing about me on google if i can help it there is another person who has exactly the same name as me from a slightly different part of the Uk who is plastered all over the web which is very handy
    Oh lord why did you make so many clothes and shoe shops


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    Quote Originally Posted by somebody View Post
    Word you will not find a thing about me on google if i can help it there is another person who has exactly the same name as me from a slightly different part of the Uk who is plastered all over the web which is very handy
    well as far as i know me, the misses, little joe and our daughter are the only ones in the uk with my surname thou there are a few more bloggs in the baltics

    the trouble with putting anything on the net is once its on there , its probably there forever in cyberspace somewhere
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    Quote Originally Posted by joebloggs View Post
    ...the trouble with putting anything on the net is once its on there , its probably there forever in cyberspace somewhere


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    Quote Originally Posted by somebody View Post
    Word you will not find a thing about me on google if i can help it there is another person who has exactly the same name as me from a slightly different part of the Uk who is plastered all over the web which is very handy
    Likewise, I have made every effort to keep my identity private on Google, and I have never used my name on here although others have referred to it. Fortunately, there is a musician with the same name as me, and he always occupies the top 100 or so searches on Google.

    It is everyone's right to share as much or as little about themselves as they wish to, this is a forum, not facebook


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    Quote Originally Posted by joebloggs View Post
    well as far as i know me, the misses, little joe and our daughter are the only ones in the uk with my surname thou there are a few more bloggs in the baltics

    the trouble with putting anything on the net is once its on there , its probably there forever in cyberspace somewhere
    True especially with Facebook etc as its only deleted from sight not deleted from their servers from what I understand.

    Many people are going to need to create new identities they think in the future due to the information trail they create when young n foolish they predict. One of the most famous people to come out with this is one of the people behind Google..

    I think Dedworth is avoiding this site tonight incase any sunderland fans on the forum THe draw on tuesday dont look so bad..
    Oh lord why did you make so many clothes and shoe shops


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    Quote Originally Posted by somebody View Post
    I think Dedworth is avoiding this site tonight incase any sunderland fans on the forum THe draw on tuesday dont look so bad..

    fuuny you mention Sunderland, I've been a fan for.. oh.. the last couple of hours
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    Quote Originally Posted by aposhark View Post
    Why no photos of yourself and family?

    Why no posts relating to them?

    How did you meet for example?

    You post so much here, why such secrecy?
    I've not bothered replying to these inane comments as I believe other common sense posters have expressed matters adequately (my thanks to those members) ie right to privacy, it's up to me what I choose to post or not post (subject to complying with forum rules).

    With the number of 'ner do wells using the net for illegal purposes I do worry about privacy/identity theft etc and that is also my reason for not using social networking sites. Your strange accusation that "he never posts on anything to do with Fil-Brit topics" has been shown to be groundless. You posted a similar thread 5 days ago titled "Dedworth, who are you?" which was heavily moderated then locked so why try the same tack again ? Do you have some ridiculous theory that a member has a greater status on the forum the more personal data, photo's etc are posted ?

    For the sake of your blood pressure I would strongly urge you to click on my user name, then click view profile, then click "Add to ignore list"


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    No further mentions of Sunderland please I've ground my teeth away


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    Quote Originally Posted by Dedworth View Post
    For the sake of your blood pressure I would strongly urge you to click on my user name, then click view profile, then click "Add to ignore list"


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    okay, won't mention the black cats. oops


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    Quote Originally Posted by Dedworth View Post
    No further mentions of Sunderland please I've ground my teeth away
    Ok i will comply Chelsea 0-mackems 3 not mentioned s........d as you requested

    We are crap too :(

    I'm liking Blackpool


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    Quote Originally Posted by raynaputi View Post
    Go to his profile and add him to your ignore list
    Thanks Rayna.
    Done


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    Rayna,
    I cannot see certain posts anymore.
    How can I stop seeing "Threads started by"?


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    Quote Originally Posted by Englishman2010 View Post
    Likewise, I have made every effort to keep my identity private on Google, and I have never used my name on here although others have referred to it. Fortunately, there is a musician with the same name as me, and he always occupies the top 100 or so searches on Google.

    It is everyone's right to share as much or as little about themselves as they wish to, this is a forum, not facebook
    So screaming lord sutch lives
    Oh lord why did you make so many clothes and shoe shops


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    Quote Originally Posted by aposhark View Post
    Rayna,
    I cannot see certain posts anymore.
    How can I stop seeing "Threads started by"?
    I'm not sure if there's an option here for that...
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    Quote Originally Posted by raynaputi View Post
    I'm not sure if there's an option here for that...
    try this or this or even
    i have learnt to do what my wife says!


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    I don't know what the english term for that kind if attitude... but we filipinos knows it we call it "usyusiro or usyusira" Maybe rayna knows it? I couldn't think of the english counterpart at the moment.

    And I am dedworth, it is our right.

    Unless aposhark is ready too much of conspiracy novels that raises him to ask the identity of dedworth. But for sure it is a common sense for everyone here in the forum.
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