Hi all,
Some might remember that I married my Filipina wife Jennifer in 2008 in the Philippines.

She disappeared straight after our honeymoon with the money I left with her for visa and flight that she said she wanted to book herself.

She had misused the money I transferred to her bank for her honeymoon before but I hoped we had got over that!

Some 18 months after the wedding my wife finally arrived at Heathrow Airport in the UK on in September 2009.
I had paid the visa cost again and bought her air ticket online and emailed her the ticket this time.

We were together here 12 days and she returned to the Philippines.

I loved her very much and was very sad she had gone, and did not know what to do next,
In November 2009 I asked her if she would sign a divorce form if I sent it to her, so we could have a quick end to things, but she said she did not want to divorce, but to come back and make the marriage work.

I was overjoyed at this and sent her an e-ticket for the flight from the Philippines and some money into her account to pay for travel items, and picked her up at Heathrow airport, in December 2009.

She stayed six weeks this time, but there was no love on her part, she would not come with me to any form of marriage guidance or sexual counselling, saying it is private between us, I did make an appointment with relate and begged her to come with me, to save our marriage but she said no, I went on my own.

In February 2010 she left and went to live with other Filipino’s that she knew and started working at a supermarket.

I then found out she had a Filipino partner in Manila all along and that they had an 8 month old son!
They had been together long before our marriage, this was a complete shock to me.

The marriage and vows were a sham as far as she was concerned, I married her for love; she married me only for money and the visa.

When she first came to the UK in September 2009; the baby would have been around 11 weeks old.
In over two years of marriage we were together less than eight weeks.

I realise I was warned, all I can say is I was in love, and love and trust go together, but even I realised there cannot be trust with so many lies.
A divorce is in progress.

Perhaps her family knew of the other man all along.
Mick.