Very sorry the hear that alanp... Times are very tough.
The very same thing has happened to me twice in the last 18months...
We finished my Mahal's annulment in February and just got engaged recently..
Friends here will be of great help and support..
I am a firm believer that everything happens for a reason ...
Stay positive.. there are good times around the corner and im sure with determination you and Jens will be together soon...
rgds