Hi All,

After not hearing anything from the UK embassy regarding the Spouse Visa I submitted last 09 Nov. 2010, my husband booked an expensive flight to coming over for Christmas Holiday and we will be together for 4 weeks. I am so thankful after not being with him for nearly 3 months.

What I don't like is that it is his ex-gf of 7 years that will be looking out for his house whilst he is away. They broke up Sept 2008 for a relationship that did not work out. I must admit that I feel insecure even though I am the wife. Last time he was here for 2 months, he did tell me that it was a friend which later I found out was his ex. I am not comfortable with it. I do trust my husband and I respect whatever relationship they had and have. But only for the reason that she happens to work along the road is something that I don't like to buy.

For those married men here, do you feel comfortable if you wife is being goody goody with their exs? I do understand what friends are and what is not. I just don't feel comfortable with it.