Ex of my hubby is looking after the house

[Arthur Little]

Sorry to read of your situation, Purple. You are right to feel to the way you do, I dare say we all would feel the same way.

That's exactly what I was thinking gwapito. Hubby got some indoor plants and posts so thinks his old ex-girlfriend of 7 effin years is the candidate because she works on the same street. And she is the one who looks after the house whenever he goes away.

My gut reaction, would be to have some concern?...It's the LDR thing!
Probably just a convenience thing, but a bit thoughtless on his part, as it's causing you anxiety?

I understand your concerns Purple, why is he still friends with her?

Me, too ... I'm afraid! I'd be a bit concerned ... and I'm definitely not the jealous type. On balance, though, Rohany ... the fact that your husband has visited you in the Phils no fewer than five times, does "speak volumes" about where his true feelings lie - with YOU - as others here have explained. So try to relax, and give him the benefit of the doubt; hopefully, also, you should soon have your spousal visa and there'll be no need for any further uncertainty.