mary were is your bf from is it belfast or the surrounding area it be great to speak to him and share our stories and possibly advise and help eachother,by the way i visit bruce every other day had a coffee with him he isnt that well i think but he never talks about it there lovely people he got zel and i a bird the same as his we call him morris lol hi to your belfast bf take care there and bless you both.
jon