Quote Originally Posted by joebloggs View Post
its good you've read up on sole responsibility, thou i think your problem is the father, i'm sure the embassy will want to contact him,(must be others on here who had kids but were not married??) but he is mentioned on the birth cert and hes supporting them..

does he know about you , if so your plans to take the kids out of the phils ?
Yes he knows about, me. He is often there in the apartment whilst she spends all night chatting to me online!
He has actually threatened that if she visits me (or marries me) he will completely abandon her and the kids, which in a way would be perfect! Though not if she visited and then we didn't marry for some reason