Is it hopeless?

[joebloggs]

Has anyone considered the feelings of the children in all this, now or in the future ?

i think the children are 3 and 1 ? like it said in the link i posted, the morality of the father is in question, whats he going to tel lthe kids when he visits them when their older ? "daddy where are you going" , "I'm off back to my wife and 6 kids!"