Is it hopeless?

[Englishman2010]

If the father of your fiancees children is in regular contact with his kids and is supporting them, I think it would be very cruel to take his kids away from him.
I see my own kids 4 or 5 times a week and they stay with me 2 or 3 nights a week. I know it wont happen to me, but if my ex wife decided to leave the country with my kids, I would do everything within my power (and within the law) to stop her.
No offence intended, but I think that you should consider the feelings of the father in this case, how would you feel if someone took your kids to the other side of the world?

[MarkR]

If the father of your fiancees children is in regular contact with his kids and is supporting them, I think it would be very cruel to take his kids away from him.
I see my own kids 4 or 5 times a week and they stay with me 2 or 3 nights a week. I know it wont happen to me, but if my ex wife decided to leave the country with my kids, I would do everything within my power (and within the law) to stop her.
No offence intended, but I think that you should consider the feelings of the father in this case, how would you feel if someone took your kids to the other side of the world?

Hmmm well the father is an adulterer with 6 kids with his wife who as a 38 year old man seduced an 18 yr old girl with promises of marriage. 5 years and two kids later she finally woke up! Ok she was naive to believe him but I'm afraid I have no concern for this mans feelings, he's a manipulative g#t. So according to you my g/f must remain single, acting as full time mum to this mans illegitimate kids, doing exactly as he says for the rest of her life just so he can see his illegitimate kids occasionally!! Get real.

Anyone with any helpful information please?

[grahamw48]

If the father of your fiancees children is in regular contact with his kids and is supporting them, I think it would be very cruel to take his kids away from him.
I see my own kids 4 or 5 times a week and they stay with me 2 or 3 nights a week. I know it wont happen to me, but if my ex wife decided to leave the country with my kids, I would do everything within my power (and within the law) to stop her.
No offence intended, but I think that you should consider the feelings of the father in this case, how would you feel if someone took your kids to the other side of the world?

You just said it directly.

Not all fathers are bad guys, and in the first instance, whether the man was married or not, it took two to tango, and at least the he seems to have stepped up to the plate.

Someone 'stole' my ex from me, so I might be a bit sensitive on this sort of topic.