Is it hopeless?

[joebloggs]

why cant you marry her in the phils, move her to mindanao, cut off all contact with him, so shes not away from her kids, wait 3 or 6 months, get evidence you've been supporting her and the kids. and then apply for a settlement visa for them all ?

[MarkR]

why cant you marry her in the phils, move her to mindanao, cut off all contact with him, so shes not away from her kids, wait 3 or 6 months, get evidence you've been supporting her and the kids. and then apply for a settlement visa for them all ?

Hi Joe, thanks for the input. That's quite similar to what Anne suggested herself and what I had been thinking too. Nice to have someone else think that should work too, I think that may well be the way we go.