Quote Originally Posted by mary_drew View Post
Hi guys,
It has been a while since my last post, we have set a date for our wedding which is the 7th August 2011 and it has been 8 months since we have been together which a very long time and it another 7 months before we are together again.

The problem I seem to be have is during our conversations we always have months were we go without an argument and then all of a sudden I seem to start one for some reason don’t ask me why I don’t know.

I just need some advice on how to deal with months of separation and when we argue is about small stuff but sometimes it is big stuff like trust which is a hard thing for me but it keeps coming up when we do argue.
Has anyone been separated for more than year? And what do you guys do to keep the conversation fresh and also what do you guys do in your spare time when you’re not chatting to each other or not at work, as I mostly play WoW which my girl says I’m an addict but I beg to differ and i also like to go out from time to time which is not that often now.
Sounds normal to have arugments now and then and it is hard to keep converstaion fresh sometimes when together. Being honest you do need to get out a bit, trust me when your Mahal is in the UK she will nto want to sit there while you play WOW all night...

If i could turn back the clock I would have spent more time think and planing where we would go as a couple.
For the first few months at least the wife will have no idea most likely where she wants to go or see. You will be the one who has to suggest and show.

Getting married is a new life and you do need to change and face up to it, you will have a person who due to the situation will be relying on you far more than a partner who is British or from the west.

If i can do it so can you