I can understand this being a difficult situation. I always want you to accept that quite a lot of people are scammed through the dating sites by what appears to be Filipina's. However having been in internet shops and seeing a bunch of men chatting away, and then occasionally dragging there sisters in to pose their boobs on webcam, you realise all is not what well.
Some of the scams are elaborate and believable.
However, that really is the minority, and women in the Philippines are generally great people.
One major piece of advice, never ever ever send money. If you get asked for money because she has lost her job, granny has fallen down the stairs, her brothers got cancer or something, it's probably not genuine. Because filipinos and filipinas have a lot of pride, and if they genuinely like you, they wouldn't ask for anything.
If you stick by those rules, and carry on chatting, you'll be fine. If you get any requests for money, start to think very very carefully.
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