Thanks everyone for the welcome and the advice.
It turns out she is not the girl in the pic's, she must of found some hearth and confessed to me over the christmas. As you can imagin my christmas wasnt the best.
She told me everything and it turns out we can never be together. She said it was just some fun at the start but she developed real feelings for me and she didnt know what to do.
Even tough she gave me every excuse under the sun for not been able to get a wedcam i was happy enough just to hear her voice everyday, I never sent her any money, she never even asked but if she had i probably would've.
Anyway thanks everyone for the advice, some valuable advice i will use the next time before falling in deep.