Did you get to see what she really looked like?Originally Posted by Hurco
Thanks everyone for the welcome and the advice.
It turns out she is not the girl in the pic's, she must of found some hearth and confessed to me over the christmas. As you can imagin my christmas wasnt the best.
She told me everything and it turns out we can never be together. She said it was just some fun at the start but she developed real feelings for me and she didnt know what to do.
Even tough she gave me every excuse under the sun for not been able to get a wedcam i was happy enough just to hear her voice everyday, I never sent her any money, she never even asked but if she had i probably would've.
Anyway thanks everyone for the advice, some valuable advice i will use the next time before falling in deep.
Sounds to me he's met someone else!Hi Hurco,
I am new and I read your problems. She probably did like you.
And you did like her a lot.I actually had been corresponding with a chap and recently he revealed his feelings for me.And I like him too.Begining of December.I was taken back becoz I did not realised he has feelings for me.However, after two weeks he started to distance himself and he blamed it on the cold weather and previous relationship.I was hurt .2 days before Christmas he did that to me and he said he likes his independance.We been speaking to each other often and suddenly he becomes grouchy and then he apologised.I do not know what to do becoz few days before Chrismas I send him few emails and he never replied he must be thinking I am bombarding him with too many emails.But I was actually very worried about him. Sometimes i wish he did not reveal his feelings and we still could be friends and now there is a like a wall between us.I am not going to email or contact him becoz he might find me a nuisance and that is the last thing I want to do.We were good friends and exchange present and neither side asked money from each other as I have a stable job.So ,Hurco , I hope you feeling better now that the New Year is here and I wish you well in your next relationship.
