Help I think im being conned

[Ako Si Jamie]

By the way, you mentioned he met someone else ...I am not too sure because it was snowing heavily in North of England ,no way he was out meeting someone....maybe on internet????Or he is bored with me?? Two days before Christmas , he was acting grouchy and irritable ....because of weather??
So , my Christmas was not very nice ....why people are so selfish ...spoiling other people festive moods?

Obviously I don't know that for sure. It just sounds that way as the cold weather excuse seems a bit feeble. He could have met someone else online maybe another Filipina or someone in the UK. Sorry if this sounds harsh. Just trying to make you understand that people do make an excuse to end a relationship rather than actually telling you.

[phoebe]

Thanks jamiexxxmaria.
Do you think he will contact me if he find someone new?If he did, should I answered his message.Well, relationship is never easy.By the way, what does it means when someone say wearing his heart to his sleeves????Does that sounds right?I dont understand it .Thanks for all the help everyone.

[phoebe]

Thanks jamiexxxmaria.I see what you mean. Do you think I should answer his message?Well, do you think the guy will contact me if he has another girl friend?Just curious.I supposed the answer is NO.By the way, what does it means wearing his heart on his sleeves?Does that sounds right?Not sure what it means.Thanks everyone for the advice and help.

[Ako Si Jamie]

Has he messaged you since he mentioned the cold weather? If he hasn't it sounds like he's not interested in you any more and perhaps found someone else.

Wearing your heart on your sleeve means to show your emotions openly.

[phoebe]

Hi JamiexxxMaria,
Many thanks for your help.I really appreciate it. Yes, I did received message and surprising apologies for the way he has been acting . And I asked was he upset about me and he said is the weather....now I am his good friend that is what he claims.Honestly, I really don't know why the sudden change. Is unpredictable.Does the weather affects people like that?Seasonal depression?Anyway, thanks again for all your help .This is the site I vent out my problems.
Thank you to everyone for their opinion it really helps me a lot.

[Ako Si Jamie]

Yeah, the weather does affect people. When the clocks go back at end of October, it gets dark around 4.30 pm plus the weather gets colder & nastier and it is a bit depressing. I can understand him but its still not a good reason for blanking you.

[sars_notd_virus]

now I am his good friend that is what he claims.Honestly, I really don't know why the sudden change. Is unpredictable.Does the weather affects people like that?Seasonal depression?Anyway, thanks again for all your help .This is the site I vent out my problems.
Thank you to everyone for their opinion it really helps me a lot.

No weather can affect a human heart to give LOVE,...its plainly clear that he can only give you love as being 'good friends' so just accept it and be happy about it....like what i've said before ''Men are like buses,if you miss one another one will come in 10mins'' ...so be brave ,smile and move on girl!!

[Hurco]

Wow this thread surely got hi-jacked

@ phoebe, the weather can effect some people but for him to not even contact you to let you know what is going on seems a little odd. But if you believe in him maybe he could be worth another chance.

I know the thread title say's i think im being conned and most people clicked on thinking money but for me it was worse, i was conned for my love, I think if it had of been money it might of made things easier for me.
She say's she has fallen in love with me now and keeps trying to contact me, but she is married. I know this cant continue but it has my head fried.
Anyway thanks all i just had to let someone know.

[phoebe]

Hi Hurco,

I am sorry to hear of your situation. I have been conned of love in the past.And I could not do anything like a zoombie. I do not want to be in that situation again.It is not nice at all, I heard the saying goes, physical scar heals and disappear but emotional scar stays for a longer time. I hope Hurco, please put yourself first and love yourself to let go of this if there is no hope . Unless , she divorce other wise no point carrying on. You going to get hurt and she as well.
Thanks for your advice. I am not going to stress myself . If he is not going to appreciate me then we just be friends. Sometimes, I cannot keep up with him one day I am his good friend another day I am his top favourite friend.....I do not know what is happening Do you think the weather make someone so unpredictable?I am still thinking he might have change his interst direction.The last time we chatted he noticed in my voice something not right...well, yeah I was angry with his sudden change . How can a person said he likes you and thinking about you but next two weeks changed ?I did planned to visit him now I really dont think so....I do not want to get hurt.What is the point of visiting for few weeks and get on well but the guy is unsure ....is sure going to hurt . By the way, Hurco I am sorry I distracted the thread you started.I do apologies.This is my first time voicing my opinion cause I have been keeping to myself and cannot handle it .I sincerely want to thank you ,Hurco for not being angry with me for using your thread.Thank you everyone here for all the help and advice it means a lot to me.By the way , Jamie I have to say this..... your wife to be Maria is really pretty looking you both make a handsome couple. All the best to both of you and good wishes for the future.Infact most of the couples photos here are really nice and looks really compatible.All the best to all of you .

[Arthur Little]

Hi Phobe,
Welcome to the site, sorry to hear about your story. Maybe you should *start a new thread and see what happens? There are many people with similar experiences here that will give good advice

That's an excellent Mark ... I've since posted my own to Phoebe, suggesting she do just *that.