Originally posted by love8888@Jul 16 2005, 05:33 PM
... It's both got mistake or might more on the man. What I observe man like to be pretend they are so nice and didn't made mistake Common be fair Always remember that man is a great pretender
I gotta admit. You're right. I did mess up. I have been apologising for over a decade. Now I have two daughters who are all messed up because she does to them what she does to me, and it took filing for divorce to get her to almost try to see what is really going on. She still prefers to believe I'm plotting against her, for what end, I don't know, rather than believe she could be doing something wrong.

I truly believe that if I had not messed up, things would be very different.

Love8888, please try not to believe that all men are equal and great pretenders and such. So many attempts by me to keep my family together have been thwarted by my wife's beliefs that match your statements. That attitude can be downright destructive. I might have been that man when I was 20, but I'm 36 now. I've grown up. Now, instead of chasing women, I'm just chasing plaguerizers. :P

Hugs to you for reminding us that we are screw-ups, and not just women as many posts here may show. :lol:

Back on the subject: I believe there is a 70% chance that this other guy who the wife talks to is her first husband, who has sent her off to get citizenship so she can sponsor him to the current husband's country. Just a thought.