so true what many have said , there will not be many flights back to the uk for me, i do live here very wisely to wisely i am told, but i dont starve and with emma here its even better, my biggest outlay is my mortgage , then running the car, so with both of those gone i am sure i could get by on very little here, with trying to buy a lot very soon we are thinking that may be wise so when we are ready to move out there and its not the right place then its a investment, emma seems to think that is the best to do , me still thinking hard, finding the right place first but that could take ages