Personally I'd move on.
She obviously has lots of irons in the fire, probably also has a local boyfriend and quite possibly kids too.
Any cash you send (and we're always warned against that on those dating sites) will of course be gratefully received.
Stringing foreigners along on these sites is now big business in the Phils.
There is no substitute for getting yourself out there and meeting a girl in a shop, office or whatever.
There are thousands upon thousands of beautiful and decent girls out there.
Just accept that you need to approach having a relationship with them in the same way as you would back home...only difference being that they're often not so concerned about your age, but not a problem for you anyway.
