Rosie1958
Hi Rosie, She's an accountant for a construction company. I'll be honest, right now I'm a bit confused as to what to do (whether to act now, or wait) My gut says that she probably did those things, but IF my gf hasn't learned her lesson yet, it'll show. If things seem better then I'd be willing to give it our relationship a bit more time. I'm at the point now where I feel like this is the last go-round anyway. If something else comes up, I'm going to leave. We had a very long conversation today about this subject. There's this little thing in me that says people deserve a chance to right wrongs they've done. Maybe she will, maybe she won't. I'm prepared to deal with either scenario now. Thanks for the perspective..you all have been really helpful.
-C