First and foremost, none of us are experts here. As Rosie and others have said, you have to trust your 'gut feelings' the longer you leave it, the harder it will be for you. Its sounds you are emotionally attached now, not good. As Graham implied, there are thousands upon thousands of uncomplicated low mileage chicks out there who would give there high teeth for the love of a good man like yourself, ok maybe not the high teeth but, you dig where Im coming from. Good luck! Just a little edit here, ok. The wife and I watched the 1971 film 'Shaft' after I got home from work last night and Ive been saying chick, you dig, and calling grown men, cats all day!.