Quote Originally Posted by blackcatbone View Post
hi people i'm really looking for a female perspective here and would appreciate any advice given.
... it's 'Sod's Law' ... you're hoping for a female perspective. And what happens? You end up being inundated with responses from the guys - with one exception - so far! Bide your time [but not too long!] and see how things go. I do feel for you though, mate ... and hope that whatever's amiss soon sorts itself out!