total agree with you mate , you have done all you can it seems other then fly out there, can you not contact her through skype or any other way on the com,and how long as it been without contact from jane, there was a time i could not get emma only a day or so and i was going mad, but there was a very good excuss when we did make contact, my Emmas words was , i have more important things to spend my money on steve then to call you like food to live , that brought it all home to me, we are married and i love her so much we are blessed, so there could be a very good reason ther is no contact