Thanks Terpe,, thanks Jim, needed that, iv no worries doubts about my lady at all,happy to marry,happy to trust,
but the hospital thing, is proberbly the only put off i struggle with, ok i got some savings credit card,if more extreme expense my house,
brenda thinks hospital will accept regular payments,providing i have income, but i dont know for sure, and that they would accept her to guarenter me,, what would concern me is if brenda being my wife would end up in massive debt,and or my daughters in uk, thats what i fear, i know brenda would as her second choice come live with me in uk, but hey philipines i wanna go for it, 12 months at least, not a bad risk