HI Welcome

Firstly meet in person and I would advise on seperate occasions before making any serious decisions. Now this lady im sure is as wonderful as my Loving Wife But on here and elsewhere there are many tales of guys and ladies having there heads turned and age and experience counts for nothing we are all foolish in love..

Firstly you cant buy a House in Phill well you can buy it but you cant own it as a non filipino citzen.

Dont invest to much in Phill and have no back up plan emgency funds for whatever may happen. Plenty have terrible tales of getting into financial messes in phill

Before you think im cynical and anti filipina im nothing at all like that I would advise her to be wary of you as well

The Internet makes us think we know people and their lives inside out when we dont really know that much at all.

Ask peope on here they will tel you the first time together is still metting a stranger who appears to be familiar and sometimes it simply doesn't work out for one or the other party. Many do work though

If she has worked and traveled abroad and has propety and savings of her own it may be quite easy to get a visa

Dont take this wrong you have been though a most traumatic time recently and glad to read things seem to be on the up but do take some time to see how things pan out its very easy to think after the hard times that this seems a dream come true.

Dont think its bad to keep your eyes open and keep an eye for any danger signals. Just read of the issues members of this forum have encountered.

Sorry if this seems harsh but this forum prides itself on telling people things as it is, as its very important as you learn in being a "Rich British" going to Pinas that there are many pitfalls

I wish you both much happiness but take sometime to make sure you dont rush in