thank you Terpe, where to live, brenda has land there which is rice fields and land with trees planted growing to be harvested, both are rented out so she earns rent for them plus a percentage of the crops takings,there is i beleive more land which a house could be built,her land ajoins her parents land who live their,i would have no objection to telling you the name of area but dont realy want publish here for all to see , no offence,
however it is obviously away from the city country land,but low lying with regard to heat and me coping with that,and that id be living close to her family, if we decide to live there she will have a house built for us, if not she suggest more elevated land which means buying and it costing more, but it will be cooler more bareable for me,she will not buy untill we know if i can cope my 6mths 1 year trial period,this is her 1st choice, 2nd choice she will come live in uk with me but it is not what she realy wants,here she may have to work and me i will have to,, in philipines we can both retire,travel a little and enjoy life,i live in a village here now, i have lived in the suburbs of a city for most my younger life, neither brenda or i wish to live in a busy city as manila, but not too far away either, these choices are individual but good we agree the same,. im here looking for advice and encouragement, its a surprise and is good to see i have influenced some courage for you, i do hope so thanks again to you, keep in touch, stewart