I wish you all the good luck in the world Stewart.
Sounds like you're part of the way down a long road.
Take it one step at a time.
House ready first, then I'd take that trip to the Phils to see your loved one.
Don't worry at all about YOUR visas in the Phils. Very easy to extend.
I got married in Pasay City Hall in Manila, once I'd got the required documents together.
That was 20 years ago, but I think it is still likely to be easier to bring your lady in on a spouse visa. Remember to keep correspondence between the two of you, and of course plenty of photos of you together, and with her family.
Again....best of luck.
