Hi, everyone..

[andreadacanay]

Hi! am just new here..I got interested in looking for this kind of site when I started engaging in an online chat with a British guy..He got noticed of me first in a travel site.. he sent me message if we could chat..since i thought that engaging in a online chat will not harm me, i agreed..we've been talking for more than a month now..until one time he asked me if i could go to his place and to live with him and start a family..i asked him that he should be the one who should visit me first here in the Philippines than me going over to london..I told him that he should meet my family first and if he is really interested in me and if he cares for me should exert effort to visit me here in the Philippines. I also told him that he should not rush things since we barely know each other that we should give our selves more time to know each other.. He told me that since I don't wanna be with him, there is no need for us to know each other more..He said that his purpose of me going over his place and live with him is for us to get to know each other more..And with that he told me that we should stop talking..I told him that he is asking me something that would put me in a risk if ever I'll go to his place..He wants me to go to London and live with him whereas I only asked him to pay a visit and meet my family if he really has good intentions..I didn't asked him to live here in the Philippines..Apparently, he doesn't know that generally Filipinas are conservative and family oriented..In any case, i never regret my decision..it only means that he is not really meant for me..

[mindanao]

hi andrea , welcome to the forum. That Brit guy sounds like a desperate person Don't buy his story.

[Sim11UK]

Hi
Good for you you did the right thing...He sounds very selfish.
He'll be a lonely man forever, as it's highly unlikely you would have got a visit visa, even if you'd agreed to go, as you'd never met...You're right, he needs to make the effort to come & visit you.
Sorry! it ended that way, but you've probably had a lucky escape.

[Terpe]

Hi andreadacanay, a warm welcome to the forum.

You did exactly the right thing. Well done to you.
To me this sounds like a very strange thing to have happened.

[PAT]

Welcome to the forum....!

[alanmf1]

Hi andreadacanay & Welcome

[alanp]

Hello Andrea and welcome to the forum

[Arthur Little]

with Mindanao, Sim & Terpe, Andrea ... stroke that character off your list, pronto!

[Arthur Little]

exercise extreme caution with whom you "chat" to online ... and to the filipino/uk forum.

[sophiamarie]

exercise extreme caution with whom you "chat" to online ... and to the filipino/uk forum.

Yepp I completely agree!!...well done...welcome to the forum.

[aug06_2006]

Hi Andrea, welldone u did the right decission. btw, welcome to the forum

[mrandmrsfox]

hi Andrea, welc0me to the f0rum
like everybody else said, y0u made the right decision..
his lost not yours ..

[mikey73]

welcome to the forum

[grahamw48]

Tell him to get lost.

Luckily for you there are still plenty of decent guys like me around.

[Rosie1958]

Hi Andrea ...... welcome to the Forum. Thank goodness you are a sensible lady, well done, you made the right decision!

[worthingmale]

Hello

You did the right thing

Nigel

[stevewool]

hello and like all have said before , tell him to walk away , then say hello to graham