Hate to put a dampener on things lads, but the reality is seeing neither of you have met your gf or friend, the chances of getting a visit visa are very slim, if not impossible?
I'm not an expert by any means & I've never applied for one, but it seems to be the way...They are hard to get & the word "lottery" is usually used, even when you have met & can supply all the requirements.
Even to get a fiance visa, to come over here, requires you to have at least met once.
Life is hard & most of us have, or are having to battle through these problems. We're all victims of the system & if we think it's all worth it, then we proceed & find another way.
Another way means having to visit the Philippines, or in Nicks case Kuwait?
Sorry! don't mean to depress either of you, but it's pretty much the reality.