interestingly enough my wife doesnt want to live anywhere near her family-she doesnt feel safe- having been to the province and her home i can see why- lots of men drinking all the time and doing not much else. fighting when drunk etc

on our last visit at Xmas i felt distinctly uncomfortable with a couple of them trying to stare me out etc which i ignored and trying to ponce money out of the wife for more drink-insinuating that cos i was western she had loads of money. ( She has never flashed money around at all ). which may or may not be true (it isnt ) but i dont wanna spend it on drunken low lifes- if they wanna drink themselves to death then get a job and do it out of their own money.