I'm going to be harsh. Tell him to get off his

and get a job, or work from home. I'm crippled with arthritis, can't move some days, in constant pain, but still manage to work. I know guys in wheelchairs who work, etc, etc..... their is work for everyone. It would make your process so much easier.
Saying that, if he has savings, and money to spare each week to support you then it may not be an issue.