Quote Originally Posted by pam444 View Post
hi everyone.. im a new member,
and yes im really worried at the moment...
a good friend told me to register in this site for possible advice.
Im on a student visa and im engaged to a british national who's on dissability benefits.. were both excited to get married... but i know for a fact that its not gonna be easy for both of us...
I've sent my COA application yesterday....and i should say that this is the start of a long marriage process...
we're both willing to face the challenges as what other couples did..
but what really makes me worried is about he's dissability benefits...i dont want him to loose his benefits just because of me.....any advice pls..
I'm not in a position to comment one way or the other Pam ... since I neither know the extent of your fiance's disability - nor am I qualified to asses his entitlement to the level of DLA he's receiving. But it makes sense - and can only be to his advantage - to give serious consideration to the alternatives my colleagues have suggested. ... and goodluck with whatever option(s) you ultimately decide upon.