Malleus, I think this is the first time I saw you post here...but thank you. Things kinda turned out okay the past few days. No matter what happens, no matter how we fight, we also acknowledge that we need each other, that we love each other so much, so we patched things up. We just had an agreement to fix a few things before we take the big step. On my end, I will need to fix a lot of things. The moment we parted ways, it didnt take a few minutes but we're already wishing to go back the last 2 wks and repeat everything and be stuck in time. He wished he's taking me back with him or staying with me here.

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Small little things like gestures, voice tones or even language miscommunications would be easily overlooked when we are together. But when were so far apart they can take on a whole new character and can really seem quite alarming and even sinister, prompting some huge arguments at times. But while the storms were ferocious at times, they always blew over because we loved each other.

My own view is that there are certain things such lies, deceit, infidelity and physical abuse that spell doom for a relationship. Likewise, while most relationships will require you to compromise some values and modify your behaviour in order to be compatible, if you find your fundamental principles need to be compromised then there is no way it can succeed either. It doesnt strike me that that is the case here.
You're right there. It was on this trip that my boyfriend learned some things that we argued before were just some normal language here. He thought I was rude in some of our chats then later on learned that the sounds I am always making are just fillers here.

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I would definitely not give up. But of course, only you can decide whether its worth it or not.
...it is.

I respect all views and it is always good to have many and not just people saying what members here just want to hear. That is the reason why I love this forum.

Prayers do work. Just dont be in such a hurry to get answers. I learned that the hard way. I always ask for specific signs and no matter how mind and heart fight, everything will fall into its places in the end. I just love them all here coz they embrace me even if I'm a hard case

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Whatever happens I really wish you good luck. Love and relationships really can be a cruel rollercoaster. When they are going well, you are on cloud nine. When they are going badly, you feel like you are in the lowest level of hell
Thank you.