I just found out Graham knew some guys I used to knock around with in Hong Kong back in the early-mid 90's,since I have been on this forum I have met two members whose husband/boyfriend are aquaintances,one works abroad in a consultant capacity,one works in keeping this country safe closer to home,I also know one or two other members who I heard of or met once long before I even logged on here,I even had lunch with a schoolmistress who taught a member of this site Its indeed a small pool we swim in