Hi Steve,
yes it is difficult , but a forum like this can be a wealth of info as well as a place for knowing you can get some encouragement, cos many have been there and done it.
One big plus is this...your love is being tested, and sure thats not always pleasant to put it mildly, but long term you know you will have proved that it wasnt just a flash in the pan.
Im getting married shortly, but had to wait almost 2 yrs for an annulment, others here evn longer,....but it does prove your love for each other!!!, Thats not to say tho it is tough at times.
So hang in there mate, and feel free to vent and let off some steam, cos sometimes....you just have to. take care
