Quote Originally Posted by dontpushme View Post
......I have already warned him that I will most likely put my career first, at the expense of sleep, a social life and possibly our relationship. I've done it in the past and I'll try to stop myself from doing it again, but the risk is there. He seems to be okay with taking that risk. I don't think he realises that once I have a job, I'd want to keep it as much as he wants to keep his job. LOL. We'll see what happens, I guess.
Wow. What a coincidence!!.
I did that with my first wife. She said OK No problem. After 5 years she gave me an ultimatum. Then another, then another, but kept spending the money and buying a bigger and bigger house etc. After 15 years she gave me a final ultimatum. My job or her. The next 5 years were "very difficult" to manage.
Finally I left.
The moral is :-
Think carefully about YOU want.
Never say never
No offence girl, God Bless