Quote Originally Posted by cel View Post
hello .my name is maricel i need advice what the best thing to do .i come here in uk as fiancee visa.and now im married for almost two years.just a day after my wedding i find out im pregnant .i have a lovely 9 months old boy now...but since i get married i dont feel like a wife.his the one recieve my baby allawonce pair weeks .instead to me becouse im stock all the time at home look after my little boy i cant find a job becouse no one look after him.i feel depressed all the time.i cant speak to my husband what i feel im always speachless for everything.sometime im thinking i need to rebuild my life again .find best man.but im affraid no money no place where to go at all.thank you hope you advice me xxx
I think your husband is ok to claim the benefits for your child as you are not yet entitled to get it as you have no recourse to public funds.(does he spends the money to you and the baby needs?)
Anyway,like what everybody advised on here...talk to your husband and moan about not having money and job and being stuck inside the house for almost 2years..
We all know that marriage is about giving and compromising ..am sure you will end up with a nice compromise with your husband.
Goodluck!!