It's pretty straightforward really.

Picture yourself as the above-mentioned guy in his 50s (ghastly thought for you I know ).

He wants a young attractive female to have a 'fun' relationship with. He's not a celebrity or a multi-millionaire.

He weighs up the odds, first looking around him in the UK/other Western country....no chance.

However, there is always the Philippines where there are lots of pretty young ladies willing to consider an older guy as a potential partner, without throwing up.
Additionally, the prospect of being transported to a rich country where she can enjoy a high standard of living and help to support her family back home makes such a relationship a sensible option for her.

Now that is our starting point, after which (believe it or not) love and affection come into play....or should do, as with any relationship.

So you see, everyone is happy...apart from the jealous, envious, usually fat , unkempt, foul-mouthed bitter older and younger women that I encounter every day of the week who can't get their heads round why people like me are attracted to young Filipinas, and (some) of them to me.