guyz, even you argued with this post, im so thankful to each one of you,.. well, since the best option is to have a wedding here in Philippines, ill take it... thats really the first plan but just being postponed because of some visa issues.. some says its easy to apply for fiancee visa after getting all the intimacy proofs..hehe so probably, we gonna go back to the first plan and let the filipino culture savor my wedding.. i just dont know how long it will take to be with my fiancee in UK after the wedding through the EU dependent route... ohh guys, i really appreciate all your warm responses... more power to all of you.. xoxo