Hi,
My advice is dont choose to quickly, I narrowed my search to maybe a dozen girls over a period of a month or so, i made it clear i just wanted friends at first to see how we got along and was very open that i was chatting with other girls too.
There were girls who tried to scam saying how their relative is sick and how sad they are they cant afford the medicine.
One girl stood out for me as being special, we got along well she introduced me to her friends, she was sweet and funny and we shared lots of the same interests.
She is now my fiancee and i spent Xmas with her and her family, we are applying for a fiancee visa in April.
My advice is dont rush, chat as friends and see if there is chemistry. See that she will be happy for you to meet her family, add you on her facebook ect...
There are many lovely girls wishing to meet a foreign husband, also lots of scammers too, so choose carefully. The Philippines the average wages maybe 25 pounds a week or thereabouts, so be careful about promising a girl a better life then smashing her dreams.
