Ok, understood. That's a perfectly valid answer. I'm happy to stay here, and earn your trust.
Although, in general if no one can put their contact info down on the relationships/dating/friendship section, then only those that have been on the forum for a long time can communicate in that section. Most of which are perhaps unlikely to be seeking a relationship. - so it renders the ad ineffective.
I have multiple email accounts (gmail,msn messenger). The email i used in the photo was good because a) it meant people with msn could chat to me straight away, and b) it meant that I wouldn't get "filipino/dating" emails messed up with my regular emails.
edit: Thanks for giving me "Member" privileges.