And when, as a couple, you meet his friends in the street ... if he's a good-mannered chappie, he will always take pride in introducing you to them - something that a lot of British men of my acquaintance fail to do - and not leave you standing on your own (twiddling your thumbs) while he catches up on the latest male gossip.
that's the problem... he doesnt introduce me to any of his friends.. eventhough they're talking infront of me.. it's always me who introduce myself to them :( huhuhuhuhu...Originally Posted by Arthur Little
And when, as a couple, you meet his friends in the street ... if he's a good-mannered chappie, he will always take pride in introducing you to them - something that a lot of British men of my acquaintance fail to do - and not leave you standing on your own (twiddling your thumbs) while he catches up on the latest male gossip.
then talk to him,tell him how that makes you feelthat's the problem... he doesnt introduce me to any of his friends.. eventhough they're talking infront of me.. it's always me who introduce myself to them :( huhuhuhuhu...
Very interested what's happening in your situation imagine,i thought you were going over to the Phills in March seems delays delays
yes always delays , my suitcase been packed since i was supposed to be going to israel over xmas,then the delay untill jan, then the delay for march, so far im £500 down for a flight cancelation, so many coincidences for delays, possibly april now, but then im supposed to be going to phill may or june unless theres another cancelation,its doing my head in
that's the problem... he doesnt introduce me to any of his friends.. eventhough they're talking infront of me.. it's always me who introduce myself to them :( huhuhuhuhu...to have brought up this particular "can of worms". But there's a friend of mine who behaves towards his partner in exactly that way. I've seen it so many times when I have been in their company and are joined by another person ... and it annoys me intensely - which is why I mentioned it here - even though I haven't said anything to him.
Unlike you they're not actually married ... despite being in a relationship for more than 5 years now. By his own admission, he's a "commitment phobe" ... and, frankly, I'm at a loss to understand how she manages to put up it.But for some reason she does. To my mind good communication in any partnership is absolutely VITAL!
Thank you for all your comments. Me and my hubby always talk about things. But most of the time, well actually always... we end up having arguments. He think he's always right :( He always raise his voice (we're still living with his parents, I'm embarassed that they might hear our sensitive conversations but it seems he dont care at all). Well that is another problem, we still dont have our own place. My hubby is so dependent on his mom :(
Anyway, I would like to have a counsellor. I told him last night about it but he said NOI can't help thinking that we will end up having divorce. But we just got married 2 months ago :( I really want it to work and I know he feels the same... Sometimes, he will tell me ''Please don't divorce me honey'' ''Please don't leave me'' and I'll just start to cry... feels like my heart is breaking
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