It sounds like you have some serious thinking and talking to do....especially before you have children.
Not having witnessed your relationship, obviously I can only generalise and make lots of assumptions, so if what I'm saying doesn't fit your situation please ignore it.
HOWEVER, what I'm reading here does NOT sound like a normal happy married relationship in our society.
I'm going to be harsh here, but it seems to me that you have married a man who has not prepared a home for you, in fact has not even left his PARENTS' home yet, a man who appears to be very insecure, and possibly immature too. (Obviously I haven't met him).
If what you are describing about him is true, then
he is aggressive towards you, and grossly inconsiderate of your feelings .
I know it is difficult for ANY couple to buy a house in these days of recession and high prices, but you do REALLY need your own place.
Surely that is not too difficult a problem for your partner to sort out (private rented) ...or does he still need his mummy ?
Do keep visiting the forum here, because there are so many people contributing who have lots of experience of UK/Fil' marriage, and the problems that can arise.
Unfortunately you do seem to have got off to a bad start, but hopefully things will improve for you.
The bottom line is though, that it is YOUR life. You're not someone's slave, and in this country you need not be alone with your problems.
I think you would be happier discussing your situation with another Filipina in your area, so hopefully someone will be able to put you in touch with such a person.
Good luck anyway, and keep smiling as much as you can.
