
Originally Posted by
FertileOne
Or you wanting children quickly before you get too old (i.e. not wanting to be an extremely old father), and her wanting to wait until she gains citizenship etc.
I'd figure due to the age gap, this would be one of the sticking points/negotiating points in most of these such relationships.
What about issues with fertility and trying for a baby (for example failed vasectomy reversals, general DNA damage in older sperm resulting in more miscarriages) which have hampered the relationship?