hi sorry to hear your bad news i had a similar experience but for other reasons the appeals system i think gave 30 days we did consult an attorny in manillla who the embassy advised who seemed to know her stuff frustratingly we cldnt resolve our issue within the 30days or after paying a fee to extend it another 30days end of the line there so we have to start afresh
as it costs so much its very frustrating let alone the dissapointment
the appeals form we had did have the same address and info to where it should be sent but we never got that far
i was always led to believe proof of regular contact proof of financial help was what was needed to support visa application not proof of wedding plans i would like advice too as we are about to submit a fresh application we are unlikely to marry here in uk but in phils at later date so any advice from previous experience would be great
the best of wishes and luck to you and again sorry to hear of your situation
regards mark