Hi all and thanks for the advice and comments so far.
I do not honestly believe she is a "loose woman". She has always said to me over and over that i should not expect too much from her and that so many guys on dating sites have propositioned her as a sex companion for money.
We have talked quite a lot about lots of personal things and i also know for a fact that she has not slept around.
I thoroughly understand the comments regarding her marital status and children but thats life for me. I also have that kind of baggage so why shouldnt she be given that 2nd chance just like myself? I hate it when western girls judge men (and have judged me) because ive been married or have children. Personally i'm not that shallow. Nevertheless i appreciate the kind words of wisdom so thanks for the comments
I know a week is too short but this has kind of been a last minute decision and an addition to my trip in October.
All that said, i have been reading this site over the last few days and had my eyes opened regarding sending money to support a fiance
I did ask her yesterday if this is what is attracting her to me and is she falling in love with me as an investment rather than a bf/partner/hubby. Shortly after we had our first argument as she got rather upset with my questions. She has messaged me this morning with repeated questions if i'm having 2nd thoughts *sigh*.
To be honest i'm totally overwhelmed by how much she seems to be into me. Her persistant contact is testament to that. My only worry is that when i visit, if i fall head over heals, how do i cope with the pain of leaving her behind and am i a strong enough character to cope with only seeing her for maybe 2months max a year.
If i dont bother visiting her and let her down, maybe i'l be passing up on my only chance of best friend/soulmate/lover (i am a romantic). For all i know, she maybe the one ?
Your comments are always appreciated.
Andy
