@sars_notd_virus - u r completely right
Whilst living in Philippines I invested everything into an internet cafe business that failed and was waiting a judge to decide on the former family home in UK and he decided I was not entitled to such - that left me without funds and I couldn't marry becoz the divorce was not finalised - OK when I entered the Philippines my circumstances were not ideal but I had to leave the UK otherwise I'd have ended my life it was that bad.
Now back in the UK I need to remain unemployed for the short term to try to get free legal aid to win back what is rightfully mine! but it's going to take time.
Yes my circumstances and life is bad now and looking back I dont think I would have done it different becoz I'm still here!!
Yes I cannot provide direct support for my son at this time though there is still pc's to sell in the Philippines by my former family - so in a way but not directly there is funds available. I have also stated that I will provide for his health and educational needs when required and any such requirements provided they have proof. Just recently she was asking for money - she told me he needed x-ray and I emailed the doctor concerned who stated that an x-ray was only required in 2 weeks if his condition had not changed. 2 weeks will be 3rd May!!! - I am waiting an update but will remain in contact with my sons doctor just in case.
