Use your own judgement and common sense...BUT:
Family trips need not cost a fortune, in fact peanuts to us.
I've had some brilliant times taking a hoard of family and friends to isolated beaches on rented bancas.
Barbeque, swimming, booze and partying = lots of great memories for everyone, and bonding with the family and locals.
I've been divorced for 5 years now, but there is no animosity whatever towards me from those lovely people, and lots of them are Facebook friends.
All in all the Filipino people have given far more to me than I have given to them.
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