lol at "You may want to take into consideration her family also"
her mother, father, all her uncles and aunts, her sis's and bro's and all their children and anyone else connected to the family plus good friends and local "business associates" all will be considered for days out, trips, shopping and providing food and drinks
not all are like this - again this is worst scenario......
you will be asked to invite them to a few trips to show you have money and status and willing to provide for "the family"
for the pinoy - it's a freebie / chance to eat, drink and karaoke and it's a status aspect - that they can show to others they have a foreign connection
for you - it's a test on your financial status and if you will fit in!